Divorce is a loaded word. One that London divorce lawyer Oliverta Mediu, a partner at Waterstone Legal, understands intimately. With marriage breakdowns soaring in January, it’s a good time to reflect on our own approach to relationships.
Navigating the messy waters of separation for nearly 10 years, Oliverta has quite the black book on what leads to marriage breakdowns. While divorce is sometimes the best solution, it is not an “easy way out,” she says. As law firms prepare for the inevitable influx of inquiries following the holidays, where couples “are forced to spend more time together away from distractions,” she shares the most common mistakes many of us make when it comes to marriage:
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Rushing down the aisle
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Romanticizing life after “I do”
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Not being open to compromise
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Getting stuck in the puzzle
The best thing we can do, whether experiencing a marriage breakdown or if we know someone who is going through one, is “be sympathetic, be compassionate and be mindful,” according to Oliverta. Life is full of twists and turns. If there’s one thing every divorce lawyer worth their salt knows, it’s “don’t judge based on your own personal circumstances.”
How do you feel about marriage? Share your views on saying “I do” below. ❤️
